Relationships Part I ? Personality Types

By: Jack OdinSky-Od
Monday, August 2, 2010

Relationships Part I ? Personality Types 

     Personality types are neither Good nor Bad they just reveal your dominate personality and its behavior. k/Now/ing your personality type can have many benefits for relationships are based on compatibilities of those personalities involved, and love can never reach or fulfill its intended goal without true compatibility. This essay is not based on any scientific study, but rather, based on life experiences, and common sense. As you read this essay keep an open mind, apply your own life experiences in relationships with family, friends, lovers, spouses, companions, and partners; and apply your own common sense. This essay is meant to stimulate, and provoke comments, and discussion so that we may all learn from each other to live life, and live it well.
     Here are four Basic Types:
1. A Giver
2. A Balanced Giver-Taker
3. A Taker
4. A Pseudo-giver-Taker


     So Let’s define each type:
      1. A Giver:  is the one in a relationship that is always giving; money, gifts, time, giving in to the other persons wants, needs, wishes or desires, and every day things like food restaurants, movies, where to go, with whom, when, how. Doing it without question, envy or resentment. Never asking for anything in return, but finding pleasure in giving. However, the Giver does have a limit, and requires respect, and gratitude for their giving
      
     2. A Balanced Giver-Taker: is the one in a relationship that is is always giving as a True Giver,  as in #1 above, but, expects to receive something in return or will just take something in return that they may want, always seeking to balance their giving with a taking.